Weird

“Weird” usually describes someone as being strange, unconventional, or outside the norm.

Why would some people consider INFJ weird?

1-Their independence.

Some people want to control you and your actions and what you should believe; they only want to see their opinions applied to you without having a good reason. They consider their standards and judgments as an absolute truth.
They can’t accept different people or others, which is a narcissistic behavior as it reflects an inability to accept the diversity of people and their perspectives.
INFJ possesses the strength to resist this type of control and maintain their values and beliefs.

2-INFJs are unafraid to go against the crowd if they believe it’s the right path.

3-Their introversion and need for isolation for some time.

Some people think that introverted people are weird because they don’t socialize, so when you refuse a social event to stay home on your weekend, you are going to be a psychopath to them.
How would you deny the fun with people and enjoy being with yourself or family?

4. INFJs are A thinker and a feeler at the same time.

INFJs are known for being thinkers and feelers at the same time; They have this uncanny ability to analyze situations logically while being in tune with their emotions. But what could drive this?

It could be caused by their empathy and desire to understand others and do the right thing in the end due to the companion of their cognitive function.

So maybe in one situation, you may feel that they are too rational, and in another, you may find them too emotional.

5- INFJ’s deep imagination

INFJs have a desire to understand the world around them profoundly. They’re good at picking up on the little things others might miss and reading between the lines. This can sometimes confuse people who don’t see the big picture; they may accuse INFJs of being unrealistic or weird.

INFJs are also great at putting all the information they gather together in a way that makes sense. They can connect things that might seem unrelated to others and see patterns that others might miss. This means they have a different way of looking at things and can understand complicated stuff.

But sometimes, their way of looking at things can cause problems. When explaining complicated ideas to people who don’t think like them, INFJs might have trouble putting their thoughts into words. It’s not easy to break down all the parts and explain them in a way that makes sense to people. This can be frustrating and make them feel like they don’t fit in.

6-INFJ’s perfectionism.

They tend to do everything perfectly, even small tasks; others can often misunderstand this tendency toward perfectionism. People may view INFJs as overly meticulous or even slightly strange.
However, for INFJs, this is simply a part of who they are and an expression of their commitment to doing things right.
They believe that every task is important and deserves their full attention and effort, no matter how small or insignificant it may seem to others.

Lastly, an important message

Being considered weird by some people doesn’t mean that you are a psychopath or have a mental illness.
It could mean that you are unique at the same time, for example, if you are taking a shower in a society that doesn’t like cleaning. You are going to be weird to them.

Or if you are going to be with the truth, even if it doesn’t match what the people around you believe because you saw something they didn’t make an effort to realize, you will also be weird for them because they don’t want to know what you see or to feel you.

So, before letting people’s words disappoint you, look at who is saying this in the first place:
Do they see what you see? Do they Really care? What is the purpose behind their words?
Do they have the absolute truth?
Do they have that exceptional life, and are they successful people?
How will their views affect you?
If they will damage more than what they will fix, embrace who you are, try to be true to yourself, and follow the truth wherever it is! You will get peace.